This is the listicle y’all didn’t get last week because I needed to rant about self care and community care. It’s also not an especially original listicle, but these are all mistakes that I’ve...
Hi, I’m Quinn Rhodes. Usually I blog about sex, but here I create advice on how not to be a dick to trans and non-binary people.
I’m a queer, trans and disabled sex writer. My pronouns are ze/hir.
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Cis people, this is your weekly reminder to put your pronouns in your Twitter bio.
"You’ve been feeling this for a long time. For years you’ve felt like an imposter, never quite clicking with the gender you’ve been told is yours. But you’ll never feel comfortable in your skin until you take that leap into the unknown." I love this so much. twitter.com/QuenbyCreative…
Want to know what you can do to help? Want to acknowledge how much work I am doing to educate y'all even though I'm bleeding out right now? Read my work. Use goggle. Share my tweets. Hire me to write about this shit. Oh, and give me money on Patreon: patreon.com/onqueerstreet
If you want to help, actually speak up for trans people. Read my work. Educate yourselves. Share my posts. I want to help but rn I am giving so much that I have nothing for myself. Don't tell me to self care when you're not taking on the work of calling out cissexism yourself.
I'm fucking exhausted and it feels like y'all still want more. You want me to be polite. You want me to educate you. You want me to spend hours and hours doing emotional labour for people who will call me a fascist just because I refuse to be complicit in my own dehumanisation.