a cis person’s guide to pronouns
by Quinn · Published August 3, 2020 · Last modified August 21, 2020
Welcome to the second post in a cis person’s guide to pronouns, my mini-series explaining why trans people are always talking about pronouns. Spoiler alert: it’s because cis people often apologise badly when they...
Welcome to the first post in a cis person’s guide to pronouns, my mini-series explaining why trans people are always talking about pronouns. Spoiler alert: it’s because it’s 2020 and cis people are still...
The plan was to take a week off from publishing content here to prioritise my mental health. Then I came up with the idea of doing a mini media round-up (or medley), so instead...
This is the listicle y’all didn’t get last week because I needed to rant about self care and community care. It’s also not an especially original listicle, but these are all mistakes that I’ve...
I thought that this week’s post was going to be another listicle about the words you shouldn’t use when you’re talking about trans and non-binary folx. Instead, I’m going to count the episode where...
Even if you know that you want to learn how to be an ally to trans and non-binary people, it’s sometimes difficult to know where to start. Have you ever been so confused as...
Yesterday I woke up to the headline “PM scraps plan to make gender change easier”. In a week where being trans has been incredibly hard, the horrific news that the UK government plan on...
I rant about the tone policing in the Smut Marathon’s latest updates, which are supposedly making it more inclusive of trans and non-binary folks.
cissexism in sex blogging / What I want to see cis allies doing right now
by Quinn · Published June 1, 2020
I was asked by a friend what the Smut Marathon judges could do to ensure that the competition is a safe place for trans and non-binary writers. This is my response, because there is...
Hi, I’m Quinn Rhodes. Usually I blog about sex, but here I create advice on how not to be a dick to trans and non-binary people.
I’m a queer, trans and disabled sex writer. My pronouns are ze/hir.
I need to see some cis sex bloggers showing up for your trans and non-binary peers today. twitter.com/SarahBHoll/sta…
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The room is spinning around me and I'm crying so hard I can't see, so I'm going to stop tweeting now. But seriously, @kinkly, do better. Cis sex bloggers, do better. twitter.com/OnQueerStreet/…
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Reminder that it is TOTALLY FINE to politely ask someone which pronouns they use! twitter.com/SubFeminist/st…
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This is a super helpful thread for cis folks who want a 101 on pronouns! twitter.com/confusedophan/…
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Cis people, this is your weekly reminder to put your pronouns in your Twitter bio.
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